fix(installer): stop Bambuddy service before file copy on upgrade

  Upgrading over a running install was failing with permission-denied
  errors on python.exe / .pyd / nssm.exe — the service held file locks
  during the [Files] copy phase. Add a PrepareToInstall hook that
  detects an existing install ({app}\bin\nssm.exe present) and stops
  the service before the overwrite. FileExists guards a no-op on
  first-time installs; the post-install [Run] step re-registers and
  starts the service fresh either way.

installers/windows/bambuddy.iss

@@ -123,6 +123,40 @@ Filename: "netsh.exe"; Parameters: "advfirewall firewall delete rule name=""Bamb
 Type: filesandordirs; Name: "{app}"
 
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+
+// Stop the Bambuddy service BEFORE the [Files] section copies anything,
+// so file locks on python.exe / .pyd / nssm.exe release in time for the
+// overwrite. Without this, upgrading over a running install fails with
+// "permission denied" on every file the service has open.
+//
+// On a fresh install {app}\bin\nssm.exe doesn't exist yet — FileExists
+// guards that path so the hook is a no-op for first-time installers.
+// The Sleep gives Windows a beat to finalize the python.exe unload
+// before the [Files] step starts grabbing exclusive handles.
+//
+// The install-service.bat in [Run] does `nssm remove ... confirm` plus
+// a fresh `nssm install`, so even if we leave the old service entry in
+// place here, the post-install step re-registers it cleanly.
+function PrepareToInstall(var NeedsRestart: Boolean): String;
+var
+  ResultCode: Integer;
+  NssmPath: string;
+begin
+  Result := '';
+  NeedsRestart := False;
+
+  NssmPath := ExpandConstant('{app}\bin\nssm.exe');
+  if FileExists(NssmPath) then
+  begin
+    Log('Stopping Bambuddy service before file copy...');
+    Exec(NssmPath, 'stop Bambuddy', '', SW_HIDE, ewWaitUntilTerminated, ResultCode);
+    // ResultCode 0 == stopped; non-zero is fine too (already stopped /
+    // service not registered). The lock we care about is python.exe's,
+    // and it's released the moment the process exits.
+    Sleep(1500);
+  end;
+end;
+
 // Pre-install check: refuse to install if port 8000 is already in use by
 // something other than a previous Bambuddy install. This catches the
 // "I have something else on 8000" case early instead of after install.